Welcome to Koiya, holistic relationship coaching to help you better connect with yourself and others.
Learn intimacy more deeply and fully in person or online.
Human connection
Seeking a safe space to relax? For clients in certain areas of Southern California, we can meet in person in a comfortable, private, and clean indoor or outdoor setting.
Need motivation? Would you benefit from a physical accountability partner? We offer activity coaching in select cities for those wishing to be more fully engaged in sessions through a walk, cycle, kayak or other outdoor activity. This is an excellent way to keep mind and body healthy and working together, and when we’re our healthiest, we can be healthier partners in healthier relationships.
Remote coaching
Out of town, or prefer staying in the comfort of your own home? No worries – we’ve got you covered with tele-coaching and growth packages available for you to explore on your own time from wherever you are.
The Koiya Approach
Receive support in your journey to betterment through integrative, tailored relationship coaching. We can help you achieve specific personal and relationship-centered goals, like becoming a better communicator or creating a more alluring home environment. We make sure to give careful attention to the big picture and address a number of possible elements that contribute to your success in being a better partner to yourself and others. Our ongoing pursuit of education and skill accumulation means we will always have fresh tools and wisdom to incorporate into your sessions.
Some services
Expressions Coaching
Communicate better
Develop self-understanding, humility, creativity and your personal voice. Learn how to overcome ego and repair relationships by writing accountability letters. Take power back by rewriting your life story and become better at the art of gracefully navigating difficult conversations through Koiya’s creative expression coaching.
Designing An Intimate Space
Aesthetic Allure
Our surroundings impact our ability to connect with ourselves and others. Learn how to declutter, organize, clean and decorate in a way that doesn’t just look good, but also increases a mood for connection.
Freedom Strategy
Your personal exit plan
Stuck in a toxic relationship or living situation? Through visioning and practical solutions, we will develop a realistic plan to help you exit the routine that’s preventing you from becoming the fulfilled person you deserve to be.
Dating & Relationship Coaching
Work better together
All relationships face challenges. Learn how to be better at working through obstacles together by developing your communication skills, critically reevaluating your values and beliefs, creating authentic intimacy and boosting confidence in yourself and each other.
Our team
Valerie Bellenger, M.A - Certified Coach, Psy.D Student
certified dating coach | psychological trainee
Whether clients seek self-exploration through creative modalities or a pragmatic strategy for transformative change, Valerie engages with a combination of generous warmth, intuition, actionable measures, and an expectation to help clients achieve the results they need.
Team Member Coming Soon
Do you work in the health & wellness field? If you’re looking to grow your business and join a team of supportive, like-minded individuals, please reach out! Koiya is expanding.
Team Member Coming Soon
Koiya is currently seeking coaches, therapists and anyone specializing in the field of health, wellness or self-improvement. If you are a licensed and/or certified professional interested in joining a team, don’t be shy, send a note!
